General:
Connor is an extremely gay-leaning bi and almost exclusively a bottom, regardless of gender. He mostly submissive, but occasionally switches. In either case, he's kind of a brat about sex and likes things fairly rough.
Double Penetration:
Either 1 or 2 holes is fine, because the boy is a size queen, but Connor has a particular love of being spitroasted. Doesn't need to be in the context of a threesome, toys are a-ok too.
Caretaking:
Connor loves taking care of people, because he likes for people to need him. Sometimes borders on mommy kink. People doing it for him, however, is hard for him to accept and he'll be weird about it.
Outdoor Sex:
While Connor really likes having sex in unusual places, particularly outdoors, he's extremely not an exhibitionist. Basically: any situation where someone is likely to interrupt will be on the edge of his comfort zone.
Gender Play:
This is kind of a broad category, so as it pertains to Connor: Connor's GNC and pretty comfortable wearing whatever he wants. His nails are meticulously cared for and always painted, and he's perfectly happy to pretend to be a girl in a roleplay scenario.
D/s:
With older men, Connor falls into a submissive but bratty role. He likes to push limits until someone tells him no! With men closer in age, however, he sometimes decides that he's in charge, actually. With women, he's only interested in femdom.
Rope/Shibari:
Connor is mostly into rope as an aesthetic. He doesn't mind bondage, but it's not why he looks to be tied up or why he ties others up. It's about making art, enhancing natural beauty.
Anal (giving):
While Connor is pretty much always down to get fucked, he's not a huge fan of topping. It has to be combined with domination for him to be into it—that is to say, someone using him as their personal sex toy.
Monsterfucking:
He's down to get fucked by monsters, but his strong preference for bottoming applies here too. Can be convinced into doing the fucking in some circumstances, though.
Oral (receiving):
Generally, Connor doesn't like to be the focus of a situation! So he'll agree to 69 but mostly prefers to give head rather than receive it because someone focusing on his pleasure is uncomfortable for him.
Objectification:
He's not really into the human furniture aspects of objectification, but some amount of objectification is the easiest way to get him to agree to topping. Treat him like a personal sex toy. It's fine.
Humiliation:
He's fine with a certain amount of humiliation as long as it doesn't get too personal and is, so to speak, "true." Calling him a slut? Perfectly fine. Saying he's worthless? Less fine.
CBT/Ballbusting:
On the receiving end, Connor will tolerate rough treatment of his genitals but it's definitely not a favorite. He's also not into more extreme forms of it. On the giving end, he's much more willing to dish out.
Mpreg/Eggpreg:
Yeah, on an OOC level I just hate... graphic birth scenes. It's easier with eggpreg, but in general I prefer to skip birth entirely and do the other parts. Pregnant sex? Great! Breeding? Absolutely! Kid shit? Hell yeah!
Vore:
On an OOC level, I prefer soft vore to hard vore. This is also definitely a thing I prefer to plan beforehand so please contact me about it if it's a thing? Connor has no fear of death, but I like to know beforehand if it's gonna happen.
Ageplay:
Please note ABDL in the hard limits section. I'm fine with ageplay, but I prefer to keep it in the Middle range rather than the infant range. I also have zero interest in diapers.
PIV Sex:
Vaginal sex is uncomfortable for Connor as a fairly gay-leaning bisexual. It's one of the reasons he's solely interested in femdom, when he is interested in women, and his general feelings about topping apply here too.
Exhibitionism:
Because Connor is pretty intensely private and closed off, exhibitionism is one of his few IC hard limits. He's generally fine with sexting, although the images he sends will rarely be fully unclothed, and can sometimes decide that semi-public sex is worth the risk, but he's real weird about it overall.
Underage:
This one is flexible. Extreme underage (ie: shota/loli) is out, but Connor is... simultaneously forever 18 and 20-something so there's some leeway in his personal feelings about what constitutes an unreasonable age gap.
Watersports:
More on the omorashi end of things than, like, being pissed on as a form of degradation? But there's some leeway if, like, your character is a werewolf who wants to mark territory or something.
Bloodplay:
Sexy vampire feeding? Yeah. Period sex? Maybe. Knifeplay that involves blood? Possibly! Basically this is one you should definitely ask about so we can plot slightly beforehand about it.
Weight Gain/Inflation:
Thiiiiiiis one is oocly difficult, because I formerly had an eating disorder! It's not impossible, it just needs a lot of ooc communication before it happens. Inflation is easier, but the whole category is iffy.
Gore:
The player loves it. The character... only loves it when the other person loves it. It's just a weird conditional for Connor, so it's probably easier to mildly pre-plan if this is happening.
Dubcon/CNC:
For dubcon, I personally prefer that it's on the aphro/alcohol end of things, but enthusiastic. The boy likes being degraded though, so there's some leeway in this.
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